If Your Boobs Could Talk...What would They tell You about Being a Real Woman?

So, you sit there on your couch and one day you hear a voice from below your neck and from two squishy objects that love Victoria Secret products! It's your boobs. Ok breasts don't talk and this in no way a weird porn blog, but what if your female parts you hold dear were to communicate? What would they tell the facts about what it is to be a real woman. Here's what boobs may tell you:

1) The real woman that you are comes from within you

It does not come from how big we are or how small we are. You are not a woman because you do or do not have us attached to your body. You are a woman because of what is on the inside of you. We help give you a shape, or a lack of one in some cases. We help your nourish your children. We give your loved one something to embrace. Never were we supposed to define you and who you are as a girl.

2) We do not define your beauty

Beauty is far below us and located in your heart. What lies there within you can be expressed in us and for the world to see in the clothes you wear, but we cannot produce beauty in and of ourselves.

3) Sexy garments to hold us and support us under your tops and blouses are utilitarian in nature

You are pretty and are attractive because of your spirit as a woman. Your inner beauty splashes in an explosion of expression that can flow through us and this is true in some girls.  If your inner woman is not allowed to flourish in you, we will be nothing more than appendages that prevent you from seeing your feet. You are sexy from the way you perceive yourself regardless of us. The thoughts and intents that only a true woman can have come not from breasts, but from deep within. You permit this intent to surface in your attitude and in your actions.

4) Your womanhood is not lost if we are taken from your body by illness or by a tragedy

If you are a breast cancer survivor or a transgender female, the absence of breasts is not an indication that you are no longer a girl or that you never were a girl in the first place. Again, the absence of us is not the defining moment for you as far as womanhood goes. You are a woman, because of your soul. Your mind and your spirit confirming your gender. Body parts are not what define you as a lady.

5) Be a Woman and Refuse to use Us as a Measurement of how female you are

You cannot help but be a woman when you are a woman. Be that person, express that beauty regardless of us and what size we are. You cannot help but be yourself. A lady will be one by virtue that she has been one from birth and by design. Whether you are in the correct body or not, a woman cannot be hidden. She will rise eventually if you allow her to. You are female not by what body parts you do or don't have. You are because you have always been within. Express that and live that regardless of what the mirror may tell you.



A silly way to convey truth from Jenny
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